When I think back, I’ve been teaching about manifesting for even longer than I have been counseling people.
Way before The Secret even came on the scene, it seemed obvious to me- and probably to you too!- that your attitude creates you happiness, which therefore affects the outcomes in your world. But within the last 15 years there has been a more accessible clarity about exactly what formula you need to follow to “get” the things you want in life:
Know what you want + Have a super positive attitude = Get What You Desire
But I’m sure you have noticed on a few- or maybe a few hundred- times that you simply couldn’t manifest what you wanted no matter how hard you tried. If you are anything like my clients, this probably drives you crazy. People come into my office frustrated and defeated, feeling like the magic of The Law of Attraction is a hoax. Or worse, that they are themselves defective, like one of my clients who recently asked “What is wrong with me? Why can’t I do this?”
Over the years as a Modern Intuitive Therapist (combining the best of psychotherapy, life coaching, energy healing, science, and spirituality), I have noticed that some people manifest quicker than others. And of course I see it in myself: sometimes I am a wiz at it, while other times it seems like progress is as slow as walking through quicksand.
It took me a while to realize what separated
the clients who Manifested with the Midas touch,
Versus those who had trouble creating the lives they wanted.
But when I isolated the one factor that determined who found happiness and those who struggled,
it all became clear.
Because, even though all of my clients were receiving Modern Intuitive Therapy with me, not all of them were able to embody one major truth.
This stumbling block, this barrier was so fundamental it is often overlooked. I started to see that it was the same missing piece over and over again that was holding some people back. There was a gap in the manifesting process, something The Secret or most psychological theories didn’t capture enough when instructing people on how to create a great life.
What has been eluding most people in their quest to be able to think more positive, and therefore create and attract more positive lives, is actually pretty simple.
And here it is: you are not able to create what you want, or feel happiness and at ease, is very simply your inability to radically trust. When you do not radically trust yourself, others, or The Divine Flow, life is hard. When you do, everything flows.
Now, this might be a light bulb moment for you, or maybe you are already aware of just how little you trust. But let me show you how trust affects that manifesting formula we talked about earlier.
As you know, the Law of Attraction recipe requires that you feel positive in order to attract more positive stuff into your life. It’s half of the ingredients to bake the cake of your outcome. The other half is knowing what you want.
The only trouble is that most people can’t maintain a positive vibration for very long. They get derailed by too many doubting emotions, frustrated that what they want hasn’t arrive, bummed that life isn’t cooperating. These lower emotions push what you want to create further away, while maintaining a positive vibration would bring them closer, faster.
Your positive vibration- your hopeful thinking and feeling of excitement- collapses when you lose trust in yourself, others, and The Divine Flow.
But you can learn to trust so radically in yourself, others, and The Divine Flow, you will be able to scale the mote that is keeping you from entering the castle of your desired outcome.
Trust is the bridge to get you what you want.
Radical trust will actually create miracles. No joke.
I will be sharing a play by play guide about how to do this in my new book that will be published, I radically trust, within a year. But in the meantime, I want you to be able to get started with this easy and simple trust building tool:
Here’s what to do: Every time and any time you get upset about the lack of something in your life, consumed in what is going wrong, or worried that your dreams won’t come true, simply begin to say the words “I trust”. Say it over and over and over, like a mantra. Let the word trust, and the idea behind it, begin to smooth the frayed path you are walking along. Allow the words “I trust” to become your go-to safety net when you are going down that negative rabbit hole. Keep repeating it, make it the focus of your mind, and watch the miracles parade in.
This Trust Tool can be used to manifest what you want- or transcend any problem in your life. I’ll keep showing you how to use it in future blogs, and you let me know how it’s working!
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Beth Miller, LCSW-R, CEC, CAHC is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Life Coach, energy healer, meditation teacher, and spiritual counselor in private practice in Bayport, Long Island, New York, USA. She is the owner of the group practice POSITIVE ENERGY Holistic Counseling & Institute where she and her fabulous team of therapists use the breakthrough model Advanced Holistic Counseling & Coaching™ to create transformational change in their clients. Beth is the creator of the trademarked Advanced Holistic Counseling & Coaching™: Modern therapy that combines the very best of traditional psychotherapy with life coaching, energy healing, science, and spirituality. Now, Licensed Therapists, Healers, and Coaches can learn how to experience huge transformation in themselves, their clients, and their careers by becoming Certified in Advanced Holistic Counseling & Coaching™. For free holistic and psychotherapy tools, visit the POSITIVE ENERGY Holistic Counseling & Institute YouTube channel, or contact us directly via phone at 631-533-0708 or email at firstname.lastname@example.org.